Behind the Fairytale: King Charles and Princess Diana’s Early Promise to Each Other Before Their…
It wasn’t all doom and gloom when it came to the failed marriage between King Charles III and Diana, Princess of Wales.
Four months after the death of the People’s Princess, her ex-husband wrote to a friend about the “unbearable emptiness” he felt. He expressed a desire to “wave a magic wand to transform the situation” and relieve his “bewilderment and confusion.” The now-King’s emotions were raw, reflecting the lasting pain from the end of their turbulent marriage, which had begun in love.
Diana and Charles’ relationship, though fraught with struggles, was rooted in deep affection in the beginning. “There was a period of great love between them,” royal biographer Ingrid Seward said. “And she wanted the boys [Prince William and Prince Harry] to know that.”
Despite the public breakdown of their marriage, both Diana and Charles remained committed to the love they once shared, a sentiment echoed by many who knew them personally.
Their connection began in 1977 when Diana was introduced to Charles by her sister, Sarah McCorquodale. Three years later, the couple began dating. Sarah recalled, “They just clicked. They have the same giggly sense of humor, and they both love ballet and opera and sport in all forms. It’s perfect, and they are both over the moon about it.”
Charles, then the Prince of Wales, was immediately captivated by Diana, a blue blood working as a nursery school assistant. “He saw all the things that the world saw — her beauty and her down-to-earth charm,” an insider close to the couple revealed. Diana, too, was charmed by Charles. “She liked his outdoorsy side, and he didn’t seem stuffy at all. He was quite likable and fun to be around,” she once said.
Their courtship blossomed quickly, and they married in 1981. Their marriage seemed a fairytale in the eyes of the public, and in many ways, it was. Diana, always candid, shared in her biography with Andrew Morton that the summer of 1984, during her pregnancy with Prince Harry, was the happiest time of their union.
“It was the closest we’ve ever, ever been and ever will be,” she said. For a brief moment, the couple appeared to be the epitome of royal bliss.
However, this idealized image of the couple would soon unravel. Their relationship, once so full of promise, began to deteriorate under the pressure of public scrutiny and personal struggles. Diana herself acknowledged the profound love she felt for Charles even as their marriage faltered. “I really want people to know that I loved Charles, and he loved me,” she remarked years later.
Their sons played a significant role in their relationship. Diana fondly described William as being particularly affectionate toward his younger brother. “William adores his little brother and spends the entire time pouring an endless supply of hugs and kisses over Harry,” she once wrote to a friend.
Diana gave birth to Harry on September 15, 1984, but the fairytale of Charles and Diana would end in a tragic divorce years later, leaving behind an enduring legacy of love, loss and public fascination.
